Crush fashion #3 Types of stylish #sunglasses that spell #posh #romance #sexy

Sunglasses are the epitome of cool, and with that carry a level of sex appeal. The right sunglasses can dress up any outfit even when wearing a plain shirt. Just take a look at Jamie Foxx, you can not even see what he is wearing and he already looks cool.

Jamie Fox in aviator square sunglasses

Here are some suggestions for sexy, inexpensive, fashionable sunglasses

Aviator Style

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Save money with #5 Shoe basics you MUST have in your closet. #classy #sexy #heels #shoes #basic

Invest in these shoes for your closet and I promise you won’t have to buy new shoes for a while. Luxury name obsolete.

Nude – You must find a nude shoe that compliments your skin tone. They will come in handy when wearing a colorful print.

Black – A primary color that can be worn with almost anything.

Navy – For those days when black just won’t do.

Brown – Brown is versatile and can be worn formally or informally.

Patent leather – Patent leather is transitional and can be worn throughout all of the seasons. My suggestions include the colors nude or black.

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#Classy ways to respond to vile or #provocative #conversation

Every now and again someone tries to engage in unbecoming or unwelcome conversation. Some of these conversations may be directed toward a person’s ethnicity or style and in a lot of cases it may stem from unfounded jealousy. Oftentimes a person may even do it in group settings to get a provocative response. Don’t succumb to stupidity.

Count to 10 in your head and try these responses:

  1. “Wow, that is inappropriate and I do not appreciate that at all.”
  2. “I beg your pardon if my accent (in this case) bothers you, I speak several languages including yours.”
  3. “You know, it is okay to agree to disagree. Don’t you love the fact that each of us can be diverse in our expressions?”
  4. “I don’t agree with the direction this conversation is headed in, please excuse me.”

Stay classy, even if the world decides it no longer wants to indulge.

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Be a gracious at home wife. Here are 5 ways

It’s a privilege to be a stay at home wife especially in this economy. In most households there are some things that you’ll have to sacrifice in order to do so.

During this ever changing process you don’t want to add any additional stress to your spouse. Here are some realistic ways to help them to be happy to secure your stay at home.

  1. Cook breakfast and dinner.
  2. Keep a clean home.
  3. Shop second-hand (second hand is en vogue because good fibres like cotton and silk are very expensive in department stores)
  4. If your spouse affords you a lifestyle budget, save some of it just in case he needs it.
  5. Try to limit complaining, hopefully you both talked about the sacrifices you would both have to make with 1 of you working, so they should come as no surprise.

Enjoy it while it lasts, secretly there are a million women that would love to be in your shoes.

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All #bras are not created equal. Wear the right bra. #4 #Occasion bras.

One of my girlfriends wanted to do something nice for her friend and husband and drop off pizza. Problem is, her bra choice was wrong and it prompted her friend to take her to the side and have the “husband” chat. Come to find out during our conversation and unbeknownst to me, the wife was correct. My friend was completely covered with a black shirt and oblivious; she wore the wrong bra – a sheer bra that showcased her nipples.

Sometimes we just want to be sexy for ourselves and don’t think about how others may feel.

Keep your friends, be humble and understand that all bras are not created equal.

  • Sheer bra- Scrumptious, for the bedroom, for your significant other.
  • T-shirt bra- Casual, covers your breasts well and smooths out your look.
  • Push up bra- Sexy, showcases the cleavage but doesn’t give away as much as the sheer bra and offers coverage for the nipples.
  • Sports bra- This bra allows for high impact workouts and heavy activities

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#Classy dating. #3 Suggested dates. Don’t go on a date after 10 p.m. Set the tone.

Which classy establishment is open after 10 p.m.? If your arrival time is 10 what time will you be going back to the comfort of your home?

Even if sex isn’t on the horizon why does the date have to be so late, who from or what is your potential trying to hide? How does that make you look? You don’t want to appear desperate, available for your date during all times of the day or in this case night. Above all don’t accept a last minute date.

Date suggestions:

1.] Brunch: It happens during midday you’ll feel less pressure and the rest of the day is yours to think about if you’d like to see them again.

2.] Wine tasting: This will allow both of you to relax, learn something new and get acquainted with each others tastes.

3.] Horseback riding: How is the person with animals? Do they take charge? Are they gentle?

Go home by yourself, guilt free.

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Have a no flip flop summer..#Where to find.. 3 #classy #summer shoes #espadrilles #ballet flats

Flip flops are just that, items made for flopping around the house- and the sound? How do you feel when you hear it? If you’ve been oblivious to it trust me, from now on you won’t be.

Problem is they just aren’t classy. Extremely comfortable yes, but not classy. I don’t even care for the ones designed by Hermes.

Espadrilles, ballet flats and mules are the alternative, for comfort , beauty and construction here are 3 go to brands.

1.} Manebi- This brand carries flat and wedge espadrilles is handmade and designed in Spain, and offers different colors and textiles.

Hamptons” Wedge mules color Sunny Yellow

2.} Jessica Simpson- Her ballet flats are gorgeous, comfortable and leather with just amount sheen to not distract from what you’re wearing. They’re also available in the color black.

3.} Tory Burch- Can’t go wrong with classic Tory. These espadrilles have the features of ballet flats. That’s why you’d be hard pressed to find them. I found 1 Poshmark seller. Click the name “Elisa”

**Honorable mention**

Guess- of course if you fancy jean espadrilles.

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