All #bras are not created equal. Wear the right bra. #4 #Occasion bras.

One of my girlfriends wanted to do something nice for her friend and husband and drop off pizza. Problem is, her bra choice was wrong and it prompted her friend to take her to the side and have the “husband” chat. Come to find out during our conversation and unbeknownst to me, the wife was correct. My friend was completely covered with a black shirt and oblivious; she wore the wrong bra – a sheer bra that showcased her nipples.

Sometimes we just want to be sexy for ourselves and don’t think about how others may feel.

Keep your friends, be humble and understand that all bras are not created equal.

  • Sheer bra- Scrumptious, for the bedroom, for your significant other.
  • T-shirt bra- Casual, covers your breasts well and smooths out your look.
  • Push up bra- Sexy, showcases the cleavage but doesn’t give away as much as the sheer bra and offers coverage for the nipples.
  • Sports bra- This bra allows for high impact workouts and heavy activities

Kindest regards,



#Classy dating. #3 Suggested dates. Don’t go on a date after 10 p.m. Set the tone.

Which classy establishment is open after 10 p.m.? If your arrival time is 10 what time will you be going back to the comfort of your home?

Even if sex isn’t on the horizon why does the date have to be so late, who from or what is your potential trying to hide? How does that make you look? You don’t want to appear desperate, available for your date during all times of the day or in this case night. Above all don’t accept a last minute date.

Date suggestions:

1.] Brunch: It happens during midday you’ll feel less pressure and the rest of the day is yours to think about if you’d like to see them again.

2.] Wine tasting: This will allow both of you to relax, learn something new and get acquainted with each others tastes.

3.] Horseback riding: How is the person with animals? Do they take charge? Are they gentle?

Go home by yourself, guilt free.

Kindest regards,


Have a no flip flop summer..#Where to find.. 3 #classy #summer shoes #espadrilles #ballet flats

Flip flops are just that, items made for flopping around the house- and the sound? How do you feel when you hear it? If you’ve been oblivious to it trust me, from now on you won’t be.

Problem is they just aren’t classy. Extremely comfortable yes, but not classy. I don’t even care for the ones designed by Hermes.

Espadrilles, ballet flats and mules are the alternative, for comfort , beauty and construction here are 3 go to brands.

1.} Manebi- This brand carries flat and wedge espadrilles is handmade and designed in Spain, and offers different colors and textiles.

Hamptons” Wedge mules color Sunny Yellow

2.} Jessica Simpson- Her ballet flats are gorgeous, comfortable and leather with just amount sheen to not distract from what you’re wearing. They’re also available in the color black.

3.} Tory Burch- Can’t go wrong with classic Tory. These espadrilles have the features of ballet flats. That’s why you’d be hard pressed to find them. I found 1 Poshmark seller. Click the name “Elisa”

**Honorable mention**

Guess- of course if you fancy jean espadrilles.

Kindest regards,


#Green summer Fibres to wear to stay elegant and feel cool. #earthfriendly #sustainable #recycle #thrift

The fabric of our lives..

100% cotton tweed walking coat
Photo cred

Though cotton is a fiber I get what the commercial was trying to communicate.

If you want to feel and look elegant during the summertime while maintaining a proper body temperature, breathable fiber is your go to.

Dupioni, chiffon, charmeuse and lace silk top
Photo cred

Fibers such as cotton, linen and silk – (though to avoid damage to clothing you want to go with a silk blend) are fibrous and allow you look stylish and protect the earth with its sustainable qualities. For the long haul they are classic pieces that will never go out of style.

Silk blend halter
Photo cred

Kindest regards,


Wednesday- Feminine, Girly, Flirty Pink #thrift #thriftohio #labelmeposh

Ice cream wristlet
skirt #rayon #chaus #thrifted
scalloped edge top #noname #thrifted
ballet flats DSW; Jessica Simpson

I have recently started to outsource clothing for my business. I like the idea of earth sustainable fashion. The catch that I love is that I find items that no one else has or is wearing. My style; as is the style of my store is classy, but fun where there’s room for it. Let’s just say I’ve been in the process of leveling up and being true to myself. No one else.

I’ve found silks, cottons, designer, leather, and hard to acquire vintage pieces and jewelry. This outfit is an example and I love the result.

What does this outfit say to you?

Sunglasses from
Earrings NO NAME #thrifted

Dress like a lady: MONOTONE PINK- Pink Lemonade- #issalook

When life throws you  lemons.. make pink lemonade.

I love a well put together monotone look; I decided to go light yesterday, light pink. I felt the need to be colorful because lately I’ve been feeling encouraged and uplifted. What better color to compliment the mood than pink?

Monotone done correctly. I love the results. (NO FILTERS)

pink 3

Kandi do you love me are you ridin’?



Put on pink dress, pink heels, pink sunglasses, fluffy pink purse for texture and a purple belt to break up the monotony.

Keep up with me here






Erika Jayne of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills outfit

As of late I really have been fascinated by black and white clothing, so when I saw Erika Jayne of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills in this sweater on Kandi Koated Nights, I was intrigued to find out who the designer is, because as we know Erika loves her designer, as do I, my paycheck just won’t allow it.

ejThe fashion house is headquartered in France, is named Maison Margiela and was founded by Martin Margiela and his business partner and fellow designer Jenny Meirens. The fashion house is known for obscuring the models faces on the runway to bring greater attention to the clothing. In October 2014 it was announced that John Galliano would take the position of creative director.

The sweatshirt which Erika wore is ready to wear and can be found here, ej2She chose to wear it as a dress which made for the perfect combination of relaxed and stylish, her hair was in an updo and she finished off the look with rhinestone thigh high boots. The top appears to be layered.

Keep up with me here