People love saying that women pass up nice guys and then complain later about not finding a suitable date. That’s the equivalent of saying that every guy with suitable means is a jerk!
A nice guy can be broke, selfish and unattractive as well. Around here we do not go on pity dates just because, oftentimes pity dates end in pity sex, and the woman is then left with feelings of self loathing .
So DO NOT let your girlfriends, or family members guilt you into dating someone just because he is a “nice guy”, nice guys are everywhere but are they suitable to afford you the lifestyle that you desire? Choose wisely.
If your potential date has a working vehicle that is.
In this day and age chivalry is not dead, but it sure is dormant and women should not allow men to contribute to this lost art. If the Uber driver wants a good review or tip they have to ensure that they treat you accordingly. It is advantageous if the driver opens the door (be a gentlemen), accommodates your choice of music (shows consideration) and makes sure that they get you to your destination in a timely manner (respectful of your time), all of which takes the work from your suitor.
In theory a point of dating is to seek a potential mate, if this is the case let them show that they are interested in your opinion of them and if they are worthy of your fleeting time by coming to pick you up and doing all of the aforementioned things to invest in you. Marriage lasts a lifetime and you don’t want to be responsible for an ill fated decision.
Nightclothes are an expensive investment to be honest, however it is a necessity.. for yourself. I want to reiterate for yourself because yes, we would like to please our mates but true beauty starts within.. if you have set a certain standard for yourself it will translate onto future relationships.
It is important to not wear elementary clothing to bed. Never get into the bed with childish prints like cartoon characters. In my opinion that is a no, no. So, you ask what is appropriate? Silk. Silk is appropriate anytime but it is also very expensive. Cotton is a least expensive alternative.
Here is an affordable brand that offer robes and organic cotton sets to stock up on that are earth friendly. Cat in check. Happy shopping.
Instagram is not far away from getting cancelled; The app is implementing a new feature in which images that have been photo-shopped will be labelled as such, they will state “False Information.”
Sure photo-shopped images can create falsities and misconceptions, but have you ever beat your face so good and the photos themselves don’t translate your work without a little color enhancement, or you may have dropped a spot of tea on your pants and need to remove it? It’s nice to fallback on a little correction.
However, from a parental standpoint I understand the push back, especially when I think of impressionable young ones that are coming into their own and are already being fed insecurities.
I’d like to know what you think because if this pans out, I want to know what the next hottest thing that someone is already cooking up in regards to social media because people will flee and I want in- early.