Kendrick Lamar has set hip hop on fire again with his new song Humble. this song is dope, the lyrics are meaningful and the imagery for the video is spot on. Message: Even though a person comes far in life, they shouldn’t compromise their humility or morality for money.

Kendrick touches on photoshop, making money and remembering your roots. A line which stood out for me was the reminder to himself that he used to eat syrup sandwiches. I’ve had an Alaga syrup sandwich myself before (although I must say I hated them.)

This song is my stuff it’s a reminder to us to stay humble all while give us a dope beat.



If you’re going to hoe be the best at it.

Everyone at one time or another has hoed or at least known someone who has. In order to be successful at it, you have to be willing to get down and dirty. In addition you’ll most definitely need knee pads. You’ll also have to be mentally prepared to uphold or throw away your reputation because you need to be the best at the job, so much so that you don’t mind your neighborhood talking about you and asking about your closely guarded secrets.

There will be questions as you hoe so be prepared. Some of the possibilities are as follows:

  1. What kind of soil are you turning over?
  2. What kind of hoe are you using?
  3. How did you learn to hone your hoeing skills.
  4. What kind of garden are you preparing?



xoxo, Kanesha

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Dress like a LADY; Dream in Living COLOR

Dress like the night; COLORFUL.


I refuse to let winter define me. I am IN LOVE with this top. It is glamorous, yet casual, laid back, yet dressy all while maintaining your modesty. This top can be worn during the daytime while transitioning with ease into the night. The colors just dance off it, and don’t worry vegans it’s not fur. Paired with liquid black jeans and black boots all eyes will be on you. Support me here or here.

I am an avid watcher of YouTube so I can’t take the full credit for miraculously finding this shirt; I got the inspiration from a hottie who has a YouTube channel called StylesbyFash, make sure you go check her out-She dresses classy and conservative. Right up my alley.

The shirt is from Zara, but as you know if you don’t grab up an item right away it could be gone. (In this case I hunted this shirt down on ebay) Unfortunately it is no longer available, furthermore, this top is so unique I couldn’t find an alternative. The jeans are from Guess.

Who or what inspires you? I hope that I do.

Dress Like a Lady: Think like a DOMINATRIX

Naughty lace. Well, well, well little Miss Sunshine has a spicy side. I mentioned before to you guys that I don’t discriminate against the color black, but it definitely has to have major personality. This outfit has me feeling all types of dangerous.

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I got compliments on this outfit all day, mainly from people stating that they like the “dress.” The outfit is not a dress but rather 2 random pieces that I took out of my closet, I tied the look together with gold and bronze toned accessories.


The necklace is from LabelMePosh.The top is from Zara (no longer available on Zara, but get it here) it is Guipure lace and it’s see through but I put a long sleeved black t-shirt under it. I purchased the lined skirt from a consignment shop and it is from the designer Oscar De La Renta.

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Perfumes that leave you smelling like a homewrecker.

Let me start by saying if I offend anyone by this post, that’s good- because some scents of  parfum are not meant to be worn. Just kidding, perfume is in the nose of the beholder.

The following  parfums are bold, brash and unapologetic.

1.Love Relentlessly by Tori Burch smells so unabashed, it’s almost offensive. The name of the parfum is appropriate because it smells like a forlorn lover who won’t let go. Simply Relentless. On the website the definition states that Love Relentlessly is a sparkling mix of fiery pink pepper and patchouli fuse with dewy rose and addictive amber. Amber and pepper? Meh. They got one thing right. The fragrance IS fiery in an angry sense and the strong smell lingers, proposing that YOU have to be the one to end the relationship by washing it off. For you adventurers the price for a 1.7 ounce/50ML bottle is 86.00 USD; the larger size 3.4 ounce/100 ML retails for 115.00 USD.


2. Rose Radiant Gold by Michael Kors is a shock to the senses. The notes in this scent are floral, musk and spices. There are rave reviews for this scent, but everyone I ask around me say otherwise. This fragrance smells so unpleasant that you want nothing more from it than a one night stand; that is you tested the product and it fails. The floral and spice notes are fighting to outshine one another while the musk hides in the background scared to come to the forefront. The 3 of these notes are a bad influence on one another. That’s my analogy , however, if you wish to be brave and venture out the bottle retails between $42-60 USD.


ENDNOTE: These statements are open for opinion, do you have any you think should be added to the “homewrecker” list?

BONUS: If you’re unsure about the longevity of a fragrance or how long it lingers on your skin, be sure to get a sample before committing.

Be kind and love another, xoxo


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Crystal Embellished “Hollywood” Shades.


These are handmade blackout shades embellished with spikes, chains and crystals. They are fly, interesting and unique just like you.


Just because you’re classy doesn’t mean you can’t be daring! These shades are available here at and the crystals can be customized.

Don’t blend in with the crowd! Stand out!